Anonymous asked:
What's the appeal of the type of man who only cares about his wife being pretty and submissive? Is it just less pressure to try to attract such a man, instead of men who care about compatibility/intelligence/ethics etc?
yeah basically, or more like the idea of trying to attract such a man doesn’t activate weird insecurities, because I don’t feel insecure about qualities I don’t actually care about
unfortunately I think trying to date people who are interested in you for the qualities you value most in yourself is probably the right move on many levels