people of European ancestry are always idealizing the strong extended-family ties of people with Asian, etc ancestry and it’s like
bitch, your ancestors didn’t embark on a world-changing experiment of dismantling traditional kinship structures in favor of neolocal residence, creating societies founded on impartial prosociality and paving the way for market economies and representative democracy, for you to wax lyrical about how sad it is that your grandparents are in a nursing home that you never visit