spiralingintocontrol

now realizing that my friendship style is based almost entirely on a dislike of hanging out with people i don’t know well because I feel insecure around them

this results in me hanging out always with the people I know best in a group which pretty much always results in me latching on to like one or two people

except I also hang out more with people I perceive to be low status because i don’t feel as insecure => they’re easy to interact with

so… fun facts??

spiralingintocontrol

worldoptimization answered: wait this is exactly me, the best feeling is when I find someone I like who is low-status enough not to make me nervous

are we literally the same person

worldoptimization

probably, has anyone ever seen us in the same room together