Anonymous asked:

Beyond the poly thing how do you find the bay vs. NYC?

I have been really happy in the Bay Area so far! Probably part of it is just the novelty of being somewhere new/experiencing many life changes, but also:

  • several close friends
  • wider circle of acquaintances
  • sun and green things
  • biking to work
  • rationalist parties
  • reading at outdoor cafe tables
  • wine tasting in Napa

etc.